Sex and Diastasis Recti Sucks!

Sex and Diastasis Recti sucks. No, not the sex part. That is great! However, having to deal with my Diastasis does. Why? I have a faux hernia. It's near my sternum. I separated all the way up to my sternum. The bottom half of me is closed (1-2 finger gap). The area near my sternum is not closed. The fascia is weak and everything wants to poke through. It hurts. Especially, If I am in an awkward position with my hubby :). It acts like a hernia. When it surfaces, I have to massage it until it goes back in place. Do you see why it sucks? I had to tell my hubby to get off of me b/c I was herniating. YES YES YES (Just like When Harry Met Sally), then NO NO NO get off of me lol. Having DR sucks, but it can be quite entertaining at times...

 

Diastasis and my Incredible Hulk Vag

I had my internal assessment done last week. It's physical therapy for my Vag. Really? Yes, apparently I have Pelvic Floor Dysfunction or Hypertonus Pelvic Floor. Too much tension in my vag. What causes it? Too many Kegels!!!!!!!! I've done several hundred b/c that's what I was told to do to correct my Diastasis and pelvic floor. I've over worked my vag. It seems my vag is ultra Strong like the Incredible Hulk lol. It sounds like a great thing to have, but No not really. There's too much muscle tension. It causes way too much pain in my lower back and Coccyx (tail bone). Now, I have to do Reverse Kegels. Instead of using the muscles to hold in my farts, I get to push them out lol. I hope this will put an end to my pain. I guess my vag and I can't fight crime anymore :).

Pain in the ass and Diastasis

I wonder if this is all worth it in the end. My diastasis is great! Currently, I have a small separation. Do I still have a "tummy"? Yes, but I don't look pregnant anymore. After all of my hard work, my tailbone (Coccyx) is in pain. It's very frustrating! I can't use the excuse "My hubby is a pain in the ass!" Wait, I still can :). Not the case though :(. I have found some exercises that are helpful. It doesn't take the pain away, but it takes it down a notch. Check it out...

http://www.coccyxcushionreview.com/coccydynia-exercises-coccyx/

Diastasis and Physical Therapy

It's been a while since my last post. I've been working hard on strengthening my abs. My abdominal muscles separated from belly button to my sternum. I quit binding my belly after December. I closed my Diastasis 6 weeks into my program. I plateaued after that :/. After my program, I continued with pelvic floor exercises. However, my upper abdominal muscles (sternum) kept on herniating. The first of the year rolled around, I decided to make an appointment with a physical therapist. She checked my Diastasis and I still had a 2 finger gap. A 2 finger gap is better than a 4 finger gap :). She massaged my abdominal region. Ouch! It brought me to tears. WTF? What else is wrong with me? She told me that I have worked so hard to close my gap that it puts stress on those muscles. It's like scar tissue. She also checked my alignment and popped me back in place. I am not misaligned anymore! Yay! The therapy is great! Before therapy, I had no idea how to find my core muscles. It thought it was tightening your abs. Nope, it's much deeper than that. My session is once a week with 1 1/2 hours of exercising. My tummy is pulled back in for the week. I have made huge progress. I have a tight 1-2 finger gap. I don't think it will close any further. Hopefully it will stay that way! After all the hard work, my tail bone has decided to give me hell :/. It's from the 100's of kegels I do through out the week. If it's not one thing, it's another. How do I correct my issue? I am scheduled for a Integrated Manual Assessment. I know, I know...WTF is that? They go in vaginally and find out what is going on with me. Maybe they can find out what is going on with my tailbone.

Before and After Tuppler Abdominal Rehab Program (Aug-Dec)

Road to Recovery: Week 6

It's been a while since I've posted anything about my recovery. Life gets in the way sometimes. My hubby travels a lot. So, it's me and the girls most of the time. I am busy, busy, busy. It's been 6 weeks since I have started the program. I have 12 more weeks to go :). It's not bad. I am loving the results! The only issue that I have is that the splint bunches up in the back. It's annoying as hell! I've emailed the company. They say that is normal. You have to readjust through out the day. So far, I have lost 5 1/2 inches around my waist. I almost have a 29 inch waist! Crazy, huh? I haven't lost any weight, if that is what you are thinking. So, as of right now, I have plateaued. My tummy is relatively smaller, but I don't think it will get much smaller than that. I understand what my G.S. was saying. Even if I had the tummy tuck, I will not have the wash board abs. I am not built that way. I am more than ok with that :). I am not giving up! My skin and muscles are coming together nicely. Still saggy, but it could be worse. The exercises are easy to do. Do I do every single one of them? Ummmm NO! What you see in my pictures are from doing half the exercises. I am warn out by the end of the day, so I don't always do them. I am also at the gym 3x a week. Nothing fancy, just the treadmill :). As you can see, I stay pretty active.

Flexing my Tummy

Straight back, flat tummy, and nice ass :)

Nice flat tummy!

Lying on my back. My hernia looks much better.

One finger gap!

Look, I have a body now :)!

Thanks again for being supportive and helping me through out my journey!

Road to Recovery Week 2!

I've been wearing my abdominal splint (Tupler Technique) for Two Weeks Now. The exercises are coming along. However, I find myself not doing as much as I would like. My girls keep me busy and drive me crazy half the time. When I do remember to do them, it's towards the end of the night. So, I end up doing most of them all at once. It's prob. not recommended, but I feel more of a burn when I do them that way. Even if I am only doing half of what is required, I am still seeing huge results. That's good, right? I just washed my splint for the first time. Don't worry, it's not gross. I don't sweat much and I am usually wearing a tank or Spanx type clothing. I washed mine on hand wash cycle with small amount of detergent. After it's done, it's still quite damp. You can either wait for it to completely which means 4+ hours w/o your splint. If you are going to do that, try to find some type of Spanxs to secure your abs. That seems to help in the mean time. Needless to say, I didn't want to wait. I put the splint in the dryer (it does say no dryer under care). I used the setting "air dry"until it was somewhat done. Then I put it in for 5 or so mins on low heat. So far so good! Anyway, enough of me rambling about boring sh@#. Here is what ya'll have been waiting for. In two weeks, I've lost 5 inches around and I am still at a 1 finger gap. If that, b/c it's pretty tight. So, maybe half of that. I've been told that a 1-2 finger gap is considered closed : ). Lets take a looksie, shall we?

Dressed with splint underneath. Side view. See how tall I am? Maybe I can say that I am 5'3 this time lol?

Another cute bikini shot with tummy relaxed. New Hair? Yes, cut, color, and highlights! Check out my waist. It's much smaller. Scroll down to see the results from last week.

I am still not going out in public, but I am willing to show all of you. Look, I have curves!

Side view. My muscles are moving back in place. There is a difference from last post. My tummy was slightly lower. Now, It's much higher : )!

Flexing my abs! My skin is looking tighter. Still flabby, but it's getting there.

Relaxed tummy on my back.

See? One finger gap! It's barely in there.

Flexed tummy on my back (partial sit-up). Where did my belly button go? It's hiding like a turtle lol. The last post, my belly button looked like a pigs nose. Kewl, huh?

Since the last two weeks...three weeks really since I have posted about Diastasis of the Recti muscles. I have had over 800 HITS! WOW! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! This truly means a lot to me. I hope I can help and guide those who want to do this or at least look into it. Feel free to follow and leave a comment or two.

Road to Recovery Week 1

Everyone, "I'm Bringing Sexy Back!" It's been one hell of a week. I've been wearing my abdominal splint non stop and I've seen wonderful improvements! The splint takes some time getting use to. The exercises are easy to do. It's all breathing and tightening your abs. I have to do this for two weeks and then start the next set of exercises. My hernia doesn't look like an angry uncircumcised penis anymore :). It's starting to look like an actual bellybutton. The splint is pretty comfortable to sleep in. I don't have any lower back pain or woken up to back pain since I started the Abdominal Rehab program. My weight hasn't change in case you are curious. However, I have lost 4 inches around my waist and I am down to a 1finger gap (originally a 4) I think that's pretty impressive! See for yourself :).

Pros: flat tummy, pain free (lower back), fabulous posture

Cons: Pain in the ass to put on and you have to readjust through out the day

Hi Bikini! It's so Nice to see you again!

Close up of my tummy. I don't look 6 months pregnant anymore

Flexing my abs! I wasn't able to do this a week ago!!!!

Side view of my tummy. Looking Good!

Hey, Look...I have a waist :)!

Relaxed tummy on my back

On my back in a partial sit-up position. No organs are exposed here. They are pushed back into place...See previous blog before I started the program. My organs were exposed, but NOT ANYMORE!

1 Finger Gap and NOT 4

Road to recovery Day 1

Mommy tummy be GONE! I just purchased the Tupler Diastasis Rehab Splint. It came in the mail Friday afternoon. I opened it up and saw my belt and dvd. I put in on immediately (after I measured my belly). Holy shit, this sucker is tighhhhhht! It literally sucks you in. You have to watch a video on how to put it on. If you don't, chances are it is not on right. I watched the video like 3-4 times to make sure I am doing this right. It's a pain in the ass to put it on and your arms will hurt like hell in the morning. You are tugging, pushing, and pulling the belt while holding your gut in. Once it's on, you will immediately notice you are standing 10ft. tall. I am SERIOUS! I use to have good posture, but it went to shit after I had my girls. For once, I actually feel TALL. My tummy is flat and...AND....I CAN SEE MY FEEEEEET! I know you are questioning and one eyebrow is cocked upwards. Seriously, THIS IS A HUUUUUUGE improvement my friends....HUGGGGGE! Later that night, I popped in the DVD and followed the exercise routine. I have to do this for 2-3 weeks before I move on to the next. It's pretty easy to do. After I was done, I went to bed with the splint on. I thought it would be uncomfortable, but it's not. I woke up feeling great! No back aches! After I had breakfast, I decided to measure myself w/o the belt on...just to see if it's true that you can see results immediately. HOLY SHIT, I lost 2 1/2 inches! I was shocked! Not only that, my skin is looking tighter. My muscles and skin are finally coming together. I still have a ways to go, but This is a step in the right direction.

 

Sorry no pictures other than the one that you saw on FB. I will try to post more during my 12 week program.

Diastasis Recti=Mommy Tummy of DOOOM!

Everyone, My mommy tummy is coming out. I have two beautiful daughters. My pregnancies were awesome, but they came with a mommy tummy of DOOM. I have Diastasis Recti. Diastasis Recti is separation of the abdominal muscles. My muscles separated during my first pregnancy. I gained around 20 lbs. and started showing around 3 months pregnant. My pregnancy was awesome. However, I noticed my belly button popped out around 4 months. I thought that was odd, but didn't allow myself to worry. Later, I found out it was a hernia. Not uncommon for a petite person. My beautiful daughter was born and weighed 8lbs 2oz. Well, no wonder...She was huge! I lost most of the pregnancy weight, except the last 5lbs. It took me a few months to lose the weight, but I still looked pregnant. 6 months, 9 months, 12 months rolled around and people would come up to me and asked "How far along are you?" I had one come up to me a patted my tummy. I was shocked! I held my head up high and carried on. The only issue I had was something was bulging out when I would do anything related to sit-ups. I thought my gut was coming out of me. I saw a few doctors and they thought it might be a hernia. I was told at the time not to do anything about it unless it gets worse. So, I have to avoid sit-ups, coughing (hard), and weird sexual positions :). Otherwise, it bulges out and is VERY VERY Painful. Again, I carried on with life. A few years later, I was pregnant again! This pregnancy wasn't as easy. I had morning sickness like no other. Every time I hugged the porcelain god, I would hold my insides :/. It sucked, but I was afraid my insides were going to explode. Very scary! My beautiful daughter was born and weighed 7lbs. I lost the pregnancy weight right away due to breastfeeding. It only took me 6 weeks and I was back into my normal clothes. Just recently, I decided to see a general surgeon. He confirmed that I have Diastasis Recti. I spoke to the G.S. about what I was experiencing and he didn't think I could have a hernia near my diaphragm. I told him that it bulges out when I give my abs a workout, cough, sneeze, laugh, etc. So, he ordered a CT scan. The CT scan showed only an umbilical hernia. So, I must have separated all the way up? HOLY COW! The G.S. said most likely I was born with weak abdominal muscles. Over time, they weakened by improper exercises,throwing up, pregnancies, etc. He also commented that I have more than 2 finger gap. Most people have a 1-2 finger gap, which is completely normal. Anything more than that needs attention. I did a self check and I can stick 4 fingers in my stomach. That really sucks!!!

Here is what my Diastasis Recti looks like with clothes on.

Here is what my D.R. actually looks like.

Here is my tummy when I am lying on my back.

Checking for D.R...partial sit-up position. You can clearly see the separation and organs (?)

 D.R. check...You can see that I can easily fit 4 fingers.

Here is where I stand. A quick fix would be a tummy tuck. I love the idea of a tummy tuck. Perfect abs...Sigh! Sound inviting, but it also comes with painful recovery and scaring. I can't do any lifting for a few months. Plus, hubby can't take the time off to help. It seems that a tummy tuck is the answer, but nothing is 100% curable. Not only that, it is considered cosmetic. The G.S should be able to fix my hernia, but not D.R. The Plastic Surgeon performs cosmetic surgery. Since I have a hernia, the plastic surgeon may be able to kill two birds with one stone...right it off or tell insurance that I need the surgery. If my D.R. is not corrected, it causes major back pain. Most people with this issue have lower back pain. If I choose not to have a tummy tuck, my other option is pelvic floor exercises while wearing a binding belt for a few months. The exercises closes the gap and strengthens my abdominal muscles. That being said, I will have more support in my lower back. Unfortunately, it's a temporary fix. I can totally screw things up lifting wrong and re-open my gap....start all over. They don't tell you these things during pregnancy or postpartum. Moms usually start exercising when they are clear or recovered. Doing the wrong exercises CAN (or may not) result in Diastasis Rectis or abdominal separation. It all depends on the way your body is designed. If one has weak abdominal muscles (like me), this is what happens...Diastasis Recti...MOMMY TUMMY OF DOOMMMMM!!!

I hope I was able to inform and not scare you all. Please consult your doctor before you do anything. For more info., please check out the following links.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diastasis_recti

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKukYpSnJCc


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6SfiH2-TEQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=786UlOm9Bso

DC Trip

So the girls and I headed to D.C. to see their daddy. He will be in D.C. for a few months. God, I hope we don't have to move there. It's nice to visit, but I do not want to live there. The drive their was awesome. I am so blessed that my girls travel well. Not a peep! Emi slept and Mika watched movies. Our first stop was PA. Absolutely beautiful. We stayed at the Marriott. I strolled in with the girls, stroller, pack and play, back pack, and babies...everything but the kitchen sink. The guy looked at me and immediately bumped me up with a suite and pointed me to the bar lol. The second day was great until we hit traffic and construction. Sucked ass! The first day we hit the Smithsonian natural science. The dinosaur museum rocked! We only had one major melt down. Miss M decided that she didn't want to use the potty. She was throwing absolute fit. She claimed that she needed to go but didn't. Then she wouldn't leave and started freaking out. So, I yelled which didn't help the situation. I told her she does not get to play with her babies. Then, shit hit the fan. She had a nose bleed! I am pretty sure everyone thought I beat my child. One lady helped us out. She calmed Mika down and cleaned her up. After we were done, I took away her babies. She flipped out again. Hubby talked to her and gave her babies back...after I told her no. He undermined me! F'n Dick! Once she had her babies back she started chanting "I've got my babies babies babies, I've got my babies"...F@&$! Pissed me off! Him and I got into it. He left, but came back. I asked him to apologize to me and he did. Our second day was much better. We went to the Smithsonian History Museum. It was awesome! Overall, we had a good time.

A simple Thank You would have been nice!

Ya know, I do something nice for someone and what do I get? A rude comment on FB. Really? Are you F'n kidding me? I took pictures of two awesome kids almost two years ago. I was just getting into photography and I needed a subject. I was excited to do this. Their family was excited to see them. I posted the picts. when I was done and they liked them. They were tagged, etc. Then recently, I deleted the original to re photoshop the pictures. I didn't like what I did then and decided to give it one more try. They turned out beautifully. I was super excited to share them. So, I re tagged them and posted them. Their mother didn't even thank me for the wonderful job that I did. Instead she left a rude comment on her FB wall. The kids father loved them and told me to post away. What a BITCH!

Guilt and Frustration

I feel guilty, frustrated, and relieved. Why? My hubby is out of town for three months and I have an awesome babysitter. Yes, I can take care of my beautiful girls, but I need a break. My stress level goes way down with help. My sassy girl and I butt heads a lot. She is going through this phase of not listening. Maybe it's because she is 4 years old. Maybe it's because she is bored. She does better when she has gone to preschool. On the days she doesn't have school, she acts out more. I try to give her as much attention as I can, but I have an outgoing 13 month old. Our house is taken over by toys and laundry is never finished. Although, my friends think our house is clean...Super Clean :)! I find it funny. I look around and question. It's not asian clean, but it's under control. I am not a Super Mom, nor do I plan to be. It's exhausting to think about it. Damn you PINTEREST and all your kids craftiness. I can't even do half of what is on my list. Again, I have a babysitter to help me be a better mom to my kids. I am still around in the house, but she is there to give my sassy girl more attention. Once hubby is back (not flying back and fourth), life will resume. Until then, this mama needs an extra hand.

Emi's 1st Birthday!

My precious pumpkin turned one Feb. 17. Seriously, where did the time go? Has it really been a year? She is walking now! She actually started with a few steps two weeks prior to her bday. Then, a week after her bday, she took off. Her world has to be amazing at eye level. She is always smiling, laughing, and kissing her mommy and daddy. She is pure joy! Love Love Love her!!!

Mama Sad :(

Mama sad :(...I just got a reminder from my phone that Emi is 11 months old today. That means next month she will be 1 years old. I should be happy, but I am sad. She is our last. Hubby made it clear that he does not want any more kids. She is growing up so fast. She a very busy lil girl. Emi is fun to watch. Everything is fascinating to her as it should. Walking is around the corner. She is already standing and taking steps with her walker. NOOOOOOOOOO! Where did the time go? I bitch and moan b/c I am not getting any sleep. I should be enjoying every minute of her existence. I am this time around as a mother. I am still bf and love it. I wasn't able to with my first. So, this time I am able to. It feels really good knowing that I am providing nutrients. Plus, it's very relaxing. She will not be on top of my boob forever, but for now I will take advantage of the bond I have with her!

Skin Deep

Ok Ladies or the 5 people that read my blog...Wanna know the secret to great skin? Fruit, fruit, and more fruit. My beautiful baby girl still doesn't sleep well at night. No sleep=crappy skin!!! I looked horrible. I may look good after having a baby, but I didn't see it. I saw dark circles and red/blotchy skin. So, I decided to buy a blender with multi functions. I bought it because it had a puree function for baby food. Anyway, I didn't use it...too f'n tired. So, I decided to use it to make fruit smoothies. Amazing!!! The first three days, I saw huge improvements in my skin. Hubby did too. He thought my skin was glowing! He suffers from adult acne and his skin made a complete turn around. Awesome, awesome, awesome! The best fruit for my skin are strawberries, mangoes, and blueberries. You also loose weight too :)...I have slacked off lately due to the cold weather. But if I have to go somewhere at night and my skin looks like sh$%...All I have to do is drink a smoothie in the morning...The redness goes away and I don't have to apply a ton of make-up...Anyway, just thought I would throw this out there.

My growing Pumpkin, Emi Nicole!

My Birth Story...Emi Nicole

So, it's been awhile...9 months to be exact. This has been a crazy year. From finding out I was pregnant, a temp move to San Antonio, moved back to Indiana, and the birth of our beautiful baby girl. Emi Nicole was born Feb. 17, 2011. She weighed 7 lbs and 19 1/4 inches. We checked into the hospital the morning of 8:30 am. I got checked in, hooked up to monitors, and meds. This was by far the best experience ever at this hospital. Not only the hospital was beautiful, but the staff was awesome! The first couple of hours into labor, I was doing great. Towards the end, I started to have back labor. My epidural stopped working!!! WTF!!! Well crap, looks like I am going to have to deliver her the old fashion way lol...Shortly after 2pm, the nurse came in to check on me. I told her that my epidural isnt working and if they can up my dose. Well, that didn't work either. FML!!! She decided it was time to check me. She rolled me over and said "wow, you are crowning"! Do you remember how to push? Ofcourse I do, it's lake taking a big shit lol...No, I didn't say that, but I was thinking it. My doctor hottie wasn't there, but they called in the on call doctor. My contractions were kick in big time! The nurse told me to stop pushing...I told her that I can't...In fact, I wasn't pushing. My body was pushing her out! 5 mins later, Emi was born. Miss Emi said screw you, I am coming anyway :). She shot out of me like a canon ball! I saw the whole thing. It was pretty amazing! I had a full length mirror so I can see everything. Pretty awesome! It took the doctor more time to deliver my placenta. My placenta wasn't coming out and was pumping blood. He had to deliver my placenta in pieces. I saw that too. They took the mirror away, but I was able to see my reflection from the lights on the ceiling. They gave me 2 shots to get me to clot. I finally passed a huge blood clot vaginally. So, looks like no more babies for me. I bleed too much lol! After all of that, we have a beautiful baby girl! She is my world. I am definitely enjoying motherhood 2nd time around.

So, It's been a while...

So, it's been a while since I blogged. A lot has happend since September. We are no longer in San Antonio...Thank God! It was a night mare! Poor hubby had to deal with work and my emotions. I wasn't trying to hate him, just his job. Even though, he would never admit to this, but he was miserable...His job totally aged him. He wanted us to be there for him, but he was never mentally there for us. He was a zombie half the time. I felt bad for him, but glad to know I was right about that job (mini horray). One day he finally realized that it wasn't working out. So, he had to tell his supervisor in Houston. Lil sht head played the pregnancy card..."My wife is pregnant and she is not happy"...Thank God his supervisor understood. So, that same day, he gets a call from someone he use to work with in Austin, Tx. He pretty muched offered him a job with the option of working from home. It was a miracle...quit one job and offered the next. It's funny how things works out. Anyway, he went for the interview and got the job. We are back home in Indiana!

FML!!!!!!!!!!!

FML and Beyond!!!!!

Hubby came home on Thursday with some interesting news about work. I looked at him and said "WTF, where are we moving to now?" He said he was offered to go to San Antonio to clean up someone's sht for a few months. I first told him that I don't want to move! San Antonio of all places!!! I do not like south Texas! I grew up in Houston and I wasn't crazy about it. When we lived in Austin, San Antonio would come up in conversation...The first thing that came out of my mouth was "We are not movng to San Antonio"...Now, the company is offering us a lot of money if we decide to move down there...FML! The money is good, but it's not about the money! It's about our happiness as a family. The one thing that blows about this is that we were giving 24 hours to decide that. Even though hubby came home to "discuss" our options, I believe his mind was already made up. He claims that he is bored and he's depressed b/c he doesn't have an outlet and friends! That is not my fault! I am not going to hold his hand to make friends. He doesn't always make the best choice in friends...His one friend that use to live in Indiana is currently in San Antonio! That is just f'n great! His friend seems nice, but he is young. I don't really trust him and I feel that he is hiding something! I think it is ok if hubby goes down there to clean up. I think it's a BAD idea to move down there. I do not feel right about it. I think something bad is going to happen. I wish I could explain why, but I can't. I think this could challenge our marriage. I think hubby wishes I can turn off my feelings and get over this. I am not going to do that. I am tired of "sucking it up". I shouldn't have too. I have supported every decision we have made when it comes to our future. Moving up to Indiana has been the best decision we have ever made. I just wish hubby can see that! I think he needs a hobby and prof. help about his depression! Hubby is going to have to deal with my crappy attitude! If I have to suffer, so does he! He is going to have to deal with my emotions. I may come to terms with this or not. I do believe something better will come along if he is patient. I truly wish I can stay here until the contract is over with! Unfortunately, I can't! I love my husband very much and he knows that! I do want him to succeed, but not take the first opportunity b/c he's bored! This is not how we do things!

WTF...the saga continues with Premier

Since my last post, I finally got a decent nights sleeping. I was so pissed the last few days...ok, it's been over a week...I haven't slept well at all. It may not be a big deal to some, but I have been screwed over on so many levels. Anyway, I contacted Premier b/c I wanted to investigate what I was told from a certain jewelry consultant. I called Customer Service and explained what had happened...Here is how it went...

Me: I was recently suckered into hosting a party for next week...
CS: You mean, pressured? She is also laughing as we were talking lol
Me: Yes, but I have a few extra words that I will not say over the phone lol
Me: I told the girl NO 3xs and she still insisted on me hosting the party
Me: I asked the girl what would happen if I canceled the party...in advance or last minute. She hesitated to tell me. Once she finally did, she tried to explain that I would have to pay back a certain percentage back...WTF?
CS: Pay back what? There is nothing to pay back!
Me: I know, right? That didn't make sense to me
Me: I told CS that I would rather return the necklace that I bought and ask for my money back...
Me: Is the person I booked the party from affected in "Any Way"...like does she have to pay anything back or give anything back...discounts, freebies, etc...
CS: UM NOOOOOOO
CS: Do I need to call the consultant and have a lil talk with her?
ME: LOL Not right now, I am not ready give up her name...
CS: I understand...just let me know if we can help out in any way

There is enough people w/i my circle of friends that is not happy with her "approach". So, it could cost her...I am not ready to get her fired lol...she just needs to have a different approach for her business.

Now, I am serisously ready to cancel the party. If no one RSVP by Thurs...then bye bye Premier Party!!!