So, It's been a while...

So, it's been a while since I blogged. A lot has happend since September. We are no longer in San Antonio...Thank God! It was a night mare! Poor hubby had to deal with work and my emotions. I wasn't trying to hate him, just his job. Even though, he would never admit to this, but he was miserable...His job totally aged him. He wanted us to be there for him, but he was never mentally there for us. He was a zombie half the time. I felt bad for him, but glad to know I was right about that job (mini horray). One day he finally realized that it wasn't working out. So, he had to tell his supervisor in Houston. Lil sht head played the pregnancy card..."My wife is pregnant and she is not happy"...Thank God his supervisor understood. So, that same day, he gets a call from someone he use to work with in Austin, Tx. He pretty muched offered him a job with the option of working from home. It was a miracle...quit one job and offered the next. It's funny how things works out. Anyway, he went for the interview and got the job. We are back home in Indiana!

FML!!!!!!!!!!!

FML and Beyond!!!!!

Hubby came home on Thursday with some interesting news about work. I looked at him and said "WTF, where are we moving to now?" He said he was offered to go to San Antonio to clean up someone's sht for a few months. I first told him that I don't want to move! San Antonio of all places!!! I do not like south Texas! I grew up in Houston and I wasn't crazy about it. When we lived in Austin, San Antonio would come up in conversation...The first thing that came out of my mouth was "We are not movng to San Antonio"...Now, the company is offering us a lot of money if we decide to move down there...FML! The money is good, but it's not about the money! It's about our happiness as a family. The one thing that blows about this is that we were giving 24 hours to decide that. Even though hubby came home to "discuss" our options, I believe his mind was already made up. He claims that he is bored and he's depressed b/c he doesn't have an outlet and friends! That is not my fault! I am not going to hold his hand to make friends. He doesn't always make the best choice in friends...His one friend that use to live in Indiana is currently in San Antonio! That is just f'n great! His friend seems nice, but he is young. I don't really trust him and I feel that he is hiding something! I think it is ok if hubby goes down there to clean up. I think it's a BAD idea to move down there. I do not feel right about it. I think something bad is going to happen. I wish I could explain why, but I can't. I think this could challenge our marriage. I think hubby wishes I can turn off my feelings and get over this. I am not going to do that. I am tired of "sucking it up". I shouldn't have too. I have supported every decision we have made when it comes to our future. Moving up to Indiana has been the best decision we have ever made. I just wish hubby can see that! I think he needs a hobby and prof. help about his depression! Hubby is going to have to deal with my crappy attitude! If I have to suffer, so does he! He is going to have to deal with my emotions. I may come to terms with this or not. I do believe something better will come along if he is patient. I truly wish I can stay here until the contract is over with! Unfortunately, I can't! I love my husband very much and he knows that! I do want him to succeed, but not take the first opportunity b/c he's bored! This is not how we do things!

WTF...the saga continues with Premier

Since my last post, I finally got a decent nights sleeping. I was so pissed the last few days...ok, it's been over a week...I haven't slept well at all. It may not be a big deal to some, but I have been screwed over on so many levels. Anyway, I contacted Premier b/c I wanted to investigate what I was told from a certain jewelry consultant. I called Customer Service and explained what had happened...Here is how it went...

Me: I was recently suckered into hosting a party for next week...
CS: You mean, pressured? She is also laughing as we were talking lol
Me: Yes, but I have a few extra words that I will not say over the phone lol
Me: I told the girl NO 3xs and she still insisted on me hosting the party
Me: I asked the girl what would happen if I canceled the party...in advance or last minute. She hesitated to tell me. Once she finally did, she tried to explain that I would have to pay back a certain percentage back...WTF?
CS: Pay back what? There is nothing to pay back!
Me: I know, right? That didn't make sense to me
Me: I told CS that I would rather return the necklace that I bought and ask for my money back...
Me: Is the person I booked the party from affected in "Any Way"...like does she have to pay anything back or give anything back...discounts, freebies, etc...
CS: UM NOOOOOOO
CS: Do I need to call the consultant and have a lil talk with her?
ME: LOL Not right now, I am not ready give up her name...
CS: I understand...just let me know if we can help out in any way

There is enough people w/i my circle of friends that is not happy with her "approach". So, it could cost her...I am not ready to get her fired lol...she just needs to have a different approach for her business.

Now, I am serisously ready to cancel the party. If no one RSVP by Thurs...then bye bye Premier Party!!!

Very Frustrated!

I am frustrated. I haven't slept well and here is the reason why. Lately, I've been going to these home parties with my girl friends. Although, they are a lot of fun, but annoying at the same time. The company is awesome, the products are great, but they make it appealing and you want to buy everything...Plus the freebies they tell you if you host the stupid parties :). I would rather take the freebies and skip on hosting the parties. I do not mind opening up our house for a party, but I don't want people to feel they have to buy something. In the last month, I think I have gone to two Premier Jewelry parties. We have had the same girl b/c she is a friend of the group...or a friend of a friend. She is a wonderful person, but business approach suck ass. She doesn't take NO for an answer and you feel like you have to help her out. I do not mind telling people like that NO and I did 3 F'n times that I DO NOT WANT TO HOST A PARTY. She didn't seem to care and insisted that I do...So, now I am pissed! I hate being pushed into something I do not like to do. Seriously! So, I am hosting a party with a good friend of mine. She also hates the idea of doing this as well...Here is the problem, if we cancel the party...We are stuck with some bogus fee...It's B.S! I do not want to assume the Premier girl made this up, but I can't find anything over the internet what would happen if you cancel the party. I understand she is doing her "job", but being pushy doesn't go over well with me. I felt like she didn't want to tell me what would happen if you canceled her party. IMO, you should disclose it in your spiel or signing someone up to host the party...AKA Unfortunately, if you cancel...here is what happens...Blah Blah Blah! I refuse to pay the "fee". I would rather return the necklace that I bought and get my money back. Plus, I would complain to the company. It may be a bitchy thing to do on my behalf...but If you are calling yourself a "Christian" company, it is not the "Christian" thing to do to push people...Teach your employees to be understanding and to move the F@#$ on if someone doesn't want to host a party...Maybe no one will show up to my stupid party to teach the girl a lesson...I love Karma! OK, I am done bitching (for now)...Hopefully, I can sleep now!

Here's an update...

After the yummy food I made for my wonderful hubby...I am PREGNANT! I am currently 16 weeks and I am finally feeling better. I was counting downs the days until I was out of my first trimester. Hopefully, I can enjoy the rest of my pregnancy!

Food, Friends, and Fun in the Sun Memorial Weekend!

My weekend was quite eventful. I absolutely love going on vacation. However, my DH seems to put a dampener on my mood. He is mister cranky pants...every time. Love you hubby if you are reading this :)...


Once we get to our destination, he mellows out a bit...but he is still bitchy. Therefore, I was in a bad mood. Sometimes I dread going on vacation b/c of that. I wish we would mellow out and relax more. He needs a good smack on the head :). Vacation should not be stressful! Anyway, our vacation was good. It was good to see everyone! Our daughter had a blast. She did not sleep well. Therefore, we didn't sleep well. Waking up 6:30 am is a bitch! We had one melt down, but that was it. She just wanted to keep on going, but couldn't take it anymore...On top of that, she came down with a cold! So, I don't blame her.

The ride home was quite eventful. Hubby ended up having a headache, so I offered to drive. The headache could have contributed Mr. Cranky Pants, but I am good at ignoring his moods :). Mika was awesome. The DVD player was set up and she was good to go...Thank God! As I was driving, I thought I saw this...


As I was driving, I kept on looking to my left to see if it was a tornado or just my imagination...It was definitely my imagination, but the weather was shty! Once we arrived, I had to go to choir rehearsal (Sweet Adelines). I was debating on having a drink before rehearsing, but didn't lol. So, all I have to say is...Home Sweet Home! Here are a few picts. from the fabulous Memorial Weekend Festivities...and a recipe my wonderful SIL made for breakfast...SOOOO YUMMY!!

BREAKFAST CASSEROLE

Ingredients
5 green onions, chopped, divided
1 tomato, chopped, divided
12 slices OSCAR MAYER Bacon
1 cup sliced fresh mushrooms
12 eggs
1/3 cup BREAKSTONE'S Reduced Fat Sour Cream
1 cup KRAFT Shredded Cheddar Cheese
1 cup KRAFT Shredded Mozzarella Cheese
Directions
1.Heat oven to 325 degrees F.
2.Reserve 2 tablespoons each onions and tomatoes. Cook bacon in large skillet until crisp. Remove bacon with slotted spoon to paper towels; reserve 1 tablespoon drippings in skillet. Add mushrooms to skillet; cook and stir 2 minutes or until tender. Remove from heat. Chop bacon. Add to skillet with onions and tomatoes; mix well.
3.Beat eggs and sour cream with whisk until well blended. Pour into greased 13x9-inch baking dish; top with bacon mixture and cheeses.
4.Bake 30 minutes or until center is set. Sprinkle with reserved onions and tomatoes. Let stand 5 minutes before cutting to serve.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Chili worked! Now, lets move on to LINGERIE!

I made Chili last night and it was awesome. I was afraid I added too much chili powder, b/c it came pouring out of the container fast (oops)...My hubby still wanted to add more hot sauce...I am glad that he enjoyed it :). The best part is that I got what I wanted later that night :). Even better, I was finally able to wear lingerie...I have beautiful lingerie that I have invested from Victoria Secret and many moons ago, hubby told me that he doesn't like lingerie...Seriously? WTF? FRICKER lol!!!! He said that it doesn't do anything for him...Now, I wished I had told him that I want my money back BTCH. Yes, ladies (or whoever reads my blog) he is a strange man. Most men love lingerie and even the slutty ones. Last night he gave me permission to put something on...Sorry hubby, that's how it comes out :). He has a lot of hang ups when it comes to "bedroom activities" and failure. I would love to thank his ex for that...Thanks BTCH! Anyway, he has finally realized that "our bedroom activities" is not about HIM...I HAVE NEEDS...MANY NEEDS lol. I am also a rare breed, but that's another story for another time. I am happy that after 10 years of being together, he is acknowledging it...It's all about baby steps with my hubby :). It's a huge accomplishment and a step in the right direction! LOVE YOU HUBBY OF MINE! Now the fun begins...The hunt for LINGERIE...VICTORIA SECRET THAT IS!!!!



Now, I wish I had boobs to wear the slutty ones :D...I am President of the IBTC club!!!